a classic GRR moment -

she's the dog 

for whom cuddling is at best, on her terms. 

meaning, when she is ready, 

when she decided YOU need it, 

but mostly, 

in the way she wants.

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so she will kiss you and play with you and chase you and sit on you,

but doesn't really like being held down.

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and NO, it doesn't sound familiar.  so shut up.

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like, i'm cleaning up a couple of months ago while unpacking,

 and sit down to close my eyes for a minute. 

and wake up to this:

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on my foot.  her way.

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