this will give you some idea
of the woman she was:
"It’s very difficult to explain how much difference having Cooper and Audrey makes to this thing. A million reasons to live, and two that make it acceptable to die. I want to be there to love and support them in their crazy dreams and endevours, cook with them, catch waves, take long aimless walks, laugh at the silly and the serious, look at galleries and museums and mountains and answer all questions to no matter how repetitive, absurd, or difficult. I really, really want to be there. But I know without me it will still happen. I know that Sasha is the most wonderful man I have ever met. And I’m pretty bloody picky. He is the best father. Ever. And that with the support of all of our friends and family there will always be someone to teach Audrey to surf or Cooper to fly fish, who will pull them in line when they’re being obnoxious, and help with their teenage fashion and romance dramas (probably in that order of importance) it’s inevitable.
So I can die knowing I’ve been a part of making two remarkable people who will grow up to be astonishing.
Not that I’m planning on taking that route, but it does make me calmer somehow.
Liz"
liz passed away this week,
in the company of her mother and her husband.
i think the last post she made on her blog says all one can about her.
i found the pic of them i remembered last week.
it's how they'll remain for me,
always:
9 comments:
a beautiful tribute landis. even though i have never met liz, i know her through you and the love she had for life, family and friends is inspiring.
:O)
ophelia
Thanks Landis...for this post.
Liz can be taken away but will not be forgotten.
Somehow when people reach the end of their lives, while dealing with a illness like cancer, they seemingly fall into a peaceful place where they emerge somehow smarter and at ease. Liz words echo that peace. I lost my best friend Phillip Thomas when he was thirteen and he taught me not to fear the unknown. Phillip was rich with knowledge beyond his years. The souls of the people we love are the sparks that drive the universe and make all our hearts beat. It's electric and goes on...
God Bless and I'm sorry for your loss.
-Mike Richter
I'm so sorry for your loss, Landis. Through your words, she touched me and made me hold my friends a bit closer. Thank you for sharing your love for her with us. Again, I'm so so sorry.
I'm so sorry Landis. Godspeed Liz.
I'm so sorry for the loss of your dear friend. When I read your initial post about how she was ill, my thoughts and prayers were with her, her family, and of course you. My thoughts and prayer are still with all of you.
It seems that 2009 has been a rough year for us all.
I never knew Liz but somehow lucky me i became part of the special person she was!
I cry for her - I love for her and I know she will be watching her all bestest.
It's funny how someone you have never have known can give you so much love - I really wish I met you Liz but I know I will someday soon - love lots xoxo Gab
What a moving post. And what an amazing attitude and spirit must have Liz possessed to write those words.
beautiful words from a seemingly beautiful soul.
so sorry for your loss.
I knew Liz for nineteen years, she was my closest friend. Thank you Landis for popping up when I googled her this evening. Thank you for loving Liz like I did. xxxxx fiona
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